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{August 14, 2009}   Till death do us part….

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I plead guilty for not having written in ages but i do hope what i write about will compensate.

I have been hanging out and talking to the opposite sex for a while now and i can say that some very interesting topics have risen, that i am sure should have stayed buried and unknown(my interest in the male species takes makes it amusing for them but i do intend to undiscover the mystery behind them).

Surprisingly enough i talked about marriage and sex with them and once they got to know how comfortable i was with their opinions they relaxed and it was like i wasn’t even there :-) .

It bothered me that many of they guys talked about girls like conquests and how many they would like to continue having sex with. So it shocked them when i said i was a virgin and planned on staying so till i at least found the right guy. Of course there was the normal snickering and smiles and booing of how boring i was (I tend to get that alot…how odd…). But i then asked them how many of them would marry a virgin and eight out of twelve said yes, i then asked why and they said because it was special that they would be their first lovers and they could trust her more than more than someone else who was sleeping around. Yes they contradicted themselves but they didn’t realize that LOL :) . The other two argued that they wouldn’t want the girl just lying there… i am sure evry person has a good reason for their opinion…

Personally when i make my vows(which should go something like this)

for better or bullshit

for richer or if we both end up poor bastards

I solemnly swear to shove my foot up

the ass of anyone who touches you

and i solemnly swear to love and to cherish you for fucking  forever

no i didn’t write it i just love it :P

I mean it and he has to. So for all those guys that are trying to convince me that sex is just for pleasure, i’m keeping mine because it means so much more to me than just pleasure.Besides there is always chocolate which is sinfully good…..



Cloches de Jerusalem says:

Sigh… Akosua you really are cute! of-course guys contradict themselves, especially African guys. They have two conflicting emotions when it comes to women, the strict African Christian upbringing of virginity till marriage and faithfulness till death, and the wannabe gangsta – impress your friends PLAYA. those two contradictions often come in, hence a lot of boys want to marry a virgin because they want their first time to be special, but at the same time they want to sleep with a lot of women….



ifmusicbethefood says:

stop making me feel stupid and accept my comment :P



ifmusicbethefood says:

and they weren’t african men :P



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